Reasons to Leave Christianity

Writing something like this has been swimming around in my mind for a couple years now. Although I try to stay away from pushing people towards one side of the fence or the other on matters of faith, I recently discovered a children’s ministry page detailing why kids should believe in the Christian deity. There’s a lot of material out there pushing people into the faith, on giving them reasons to stay in that faith even when they can’t keep it anymore. Only a few materials exist which push back against this, mostly written by people who never even believed in the first place.

Of course, a simple blog post can’t contain all of my thoughts on why people should not keep their Christian faith. My own reasons for leaving have filled up several long, boring posts. In fact, the vast number of topics that come to mind on this make it difficult for me to organize them. I can’t write effectively about all of this because I have no good way of ordering my thinking. One topic can easily relate to several others, which creates a rabbit’s warren of tunnels to sink one’s mind into.

Over the years, I think I still feel pushed to writing something about this because of conversations I’ve had with other people who left Christianity. Many of them have told me that they only stayed because of the empty promises – this was even after knowing them to be empty. Those same empty promises become a source of pain and suffering for long after leaving the faith. Worse, many still in the faith twist the proverbial knife for no other reason than their ignorance of how it hurts others. Just recently, I had to inform one Christian that trying to win back souls on my blog is the moral equivalent of selling booze at an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting.

It should have been obvious.

The list of reasons I give here is by no means exhaustive. Instead, it’s an outline of my thinking. I’m putting it out here because doing this helps me order my thinking a bit.

Reasons to Leave Christianity:

1. Its predictions aren’t reliable.

2. It began as a regular death cult.

3. Believing people are worthless can really hurt others.

4. It requires special exceptions for dealing with reality.

5. The comfort it offers is illusory.

6. Trusting the Bible means trusting ancient writers more than people alive today.

7. Leaving Christianity doesn’t make you hopeless; recovering from its promises does.

These are the ones I can think about off the top of my head.
There are plenty of others I’ll think of once I publish this. But it’s a start. If there’s anything crucial I’m missing, let me know in the comments.

130 thoughts on “Reasons to Leave Christianity

    • The idea of an invisible friend is a matter of human psychology, a matter of science. For me all science is legitimate. But science and faith are on two different planes of human experience and are not congruent nor do they intersect. On the other hand, one of my favorite hymns is “What a Friend We have in Jesus”


      • I’d be happy with, “What a Friend We Have In Carl”. 🙂
        You see, Carl, I think you are a wonderful man. Anything I have ever read of yours has reflected a genuine, caring, sensible, warm human being. I wish there were more people like you. Where you and I differ in philosophy, though is that it’s as far as I take your character assessment. For me, you are a good, kind man. It has nothing to do with an invisible entity. You just ARE. I think, however, that you’d give your invisible entity the credit and that’s where I think you’re mistaken. I think you’d be a nice guy without (a) god, too. 🙂

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      • Can you explain why you think science and faith are two different planes of human experience? Isn’t this just an excuse for not having to provide evidence of the existence of the divine? I mean if I can use science to explain why humans would have spiritual experiences or why humans would develop beliefs, then it would seem that faith is a subset of science, not a separate sort of experience. Science might not be able to tell you what you have faith in, no more than it can tell you what your favorite ice cream is, but it can tell you why you faith, and why you might enjoy ice cream.


    • CARMEN :I appreciate your very kind and generous assessment of me. I try to live up to it.One way to express faith is to model Christian behavior in our daily routines. I hope examples of this in the lives of Christians may interest people. As in “Hmmm. Does he know something I don’t?” Yes I do give my invisible entity credit as I have accepted His invitation and opened myself to be imbued with the Holy Spirit. This can be achieved with convoluted theologies and denominational practices and rites.


  1. I don’t see any validity in any of these. Assertion #2 strikes me as an especially bizarre conclusion. The promise of the Resurrection is life. Satan (evil) is the Angel of Death. You will not find a single book on 1st and 2nd early Christianity that characterizes the faith as a death cult.The Romans and pagans suggested such as they thought Christians practiced human sacrifices and drank the blood of the victims. Is this why you say the faith started as a death cult ? Now these 7 might seem reasonable to an individual that has been demoralized by particular experiences but people of faith see only truth in all of these. Rejecting/leaving Christianity ? What is objectionable about living in peace and charity and kindness for others ? Now a disgust with certain denominations I can understand as well as the hypocrisy of alleged men of God and general people professing to be Christians. I have 2 degrees in religious studies but I have given all the books away and my Christianity comes down to just two things : never be the source of anyone’s misfortune and never pass an opportunity to perform a charitable act if within your ability to do so. I think this satisfies the Lord’s covenant and merits His embrace. Why would anyone reject or discard these two very basic ideas of Christianity ? The history of the Roman Church certainly contains many horrors over the centuries and these I cannot defend but I conclude that such men, such directions and such hypocrisy condemn the men and churches not Christianity. The terrible things championed by the Roman Church proves to me that the whole shebang was not of Christ, not of His Church and not of his blessing. I am a member of the reformed churches Reformation (Presbyterian) and have no association with the Roman Church or its history. In 2016 I gave myself a writing assignment. I wrote a page a day sometimes 3, sometimes only a half page and sometimes skipped a week here and there. It took 11 months. I hand wrote the entire New Testament and did not find a single verse or idea or process that would validate these 7 assertions. I learned more through this effort than from 30 post grad credit hours. Believing in ancient writings as ignoring contemporary people is not a valid assertion as the message of faith is the same as it was 2,000 years ago. Don’t we incorporate the 10 laws that Moses presented ? Ancient writings ? Shall we ignore the birthright of America, The Constitution as it it an ancient writing ? Isn’t it alive today ?Is Jefferson and Thomas Paine irrelevant today ? Don’t people of today ascribe to it albeit some questionable political paths and doctrines ? The comfort illusory ? Not for me. Jesus promised “Obey my commandments and preach my Gospel and have no fear for I will be with you even till the end of the age.” That is very comforting to me and not the least bit illusory.It is a promise with a full warranty. Jesus did not start a religion. Paul did. Jesus “offers” (present tense) a way of life. It is an invitation and self validating. I sign off now as I must finish another of my cartoons, read a few more pages historical fiction on Knights Templar (I am a Mason) and then take my “grandpa nap”. Regards…

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    • Hey Carl,

      At the outset, I’d like to point out that the “Christianity” I’m referring to is probably something you would not agree with. I’m referring to the collective history, teachings, and ideas put forward by more fundamentalist and evangelical circles here in the U.S. (and anything like it elsewhere). This means that more liberal interpretations of the term might not apply.

      That out of the way, let me address some specific points you made:
      (1) “The Romans and pagans suggested such as they thought Christians practiced human sacrifices and drank the blood of the victims. Is this why you say the faith started as a death cult[]?”

      The reason why I suggest Christianity started as a death cult (and might even still be one, if I’m being completely candid) is because of how death cult is defined. Christianity – the kind I am most familiar with – teaches a lot about death, dying, what happens after death, the death of its founder, and an apocalypse of death to death itself. More liberal Christians might not focus on this as much, but the New Testament shows how the faith spoke mostly about defeating death.

      (2) “What is objectionable about living in peace and charity and kindness for others[]?”

      If Christianity was just this tenet, I’d find nothing objectionable about it at all. However, we both know this isn’t the only thing that gets preached in pulpits around the world. To the extent that someone might just limit Christianity to a humanistic mantra, I don’t object at all. But this doesn’t really happen, and it’s not an aberrant teaching either.

      (3)”Believing in ancient writings as ignoring contemporary people is not a valid assertion as the message of faith is the same as it was 2,000 years ago. ”

      This and your other examples about American law are misplaced. What I’m getting at here is the idea that ancient people talking about shepherding the world’s animals onto a boat is somehow more believable than theories regarding evolution. While my point is gratuitously expressed, it is no less valid.

      Additionally, the difference between the Constitution and the Bible is that the Constitution doesn’t make metaphysical claims about reality. The closest it gets is describing some broad philosophical underpinnings on the nature of government and power. That’s it.

      To be quite clear, my point is not that old writings are inherently to be dismissed out of hand. Rather, it is that they should not be accepted in their entirety without any question. To equate the reasoning and ideas of our founders with biblical precepts is to profane the former and misrepresent the latter.

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    • Caril, regarding Christianity being a death cult, and besides Sirius very good points, since the Hammer of the Arians (Bishop Hilary of Poitiers) predicted the mass liquidation of all earthly species in 365 CE your religion has produced a continuous supply of socially derelict luminaries who’ve longed for nothing short of the total and complete annihilation of our home world.

      Just a decade after Bishop Hilary’s fatalistic proclamation, Martin of Tours pronounced that the heavenly holocaust was at hand (375 CE). For the trireme of morose hopelessness embodied in Hippolytus of Rome, Sextus Julius Africanus and Saint Irenaeus it was 500 CE when the Christian god was going to obliterate everything from toddlers to tiaras. For the Spanish monk, Beatus of Liébana, it was the 6th of April 793. Pope Sylvester II and Cardinal John of Toledo named 1186 as the year the Christian god was going commit its radiant genocide. Joachim of Fiore fingered 1260, then 1290, and finally 1335. 1284 was the date for the glorious massacre according to Pope Innocent III, 1378 for Arnaldus de Villa Nova, the 20th of February 1524 for Johannes Stöffler (later revised up to 1528), and the 27th of May 1528 for the Anabaptist, Hans Hut, who apart from getting his prediction of the end of the world horribly wrong holds the rather unusual distinction of being perhaps the only person in history to be executed a day after in fact dying. The mathematician and monk, Michael Stifel, was quite specific saying 500 million innocent men, women and children, together with millions of equally innocent species would be willfully put to death at precisely 8am on the 19th October 1533. For Jan Matthys it was 1534, 1555 for Pierre d’Ailly, 1585 for Michael Servetus, and 1600 when Martin Luther hoped the earth would be destroyed in a cataclysmic blast of resplendent carnage. 1794 was the year the Methodist, Charles Wesley, was certain god was going to wreak heavenly havoc on all creatures. His brother, John, fingered 1836, but for the Jehovah Witnesses 1914 was the year they were positively convinced the world would be put to the saintly torch. When it didn’t, they simply dusted themselves off, pulled up their socks, and went on to name 1915, then 1918, 1920, 1925, 1941, 1975, and finally 1994 as sequentially erroneous dates for their Christian god to commit its rapturous mass murder. The Baptist minister, William Miller, was sure our world would be blissfully annihilated on the 21st of March 1843; a date amended on the 22nd of March to the 18th of April, only to be revised again on the 19th to the 22nd of October 1844, which came and went without as much as a godly sneeze. The Methodist, Joanna Southcott, was certain her Christian god would annihilate everything on the 19th of October 1814, and Joseph Smith got his prediction of the end of the world fabulously wrong when 1891 passed to 1892 and children were still playing under the sun. For Jim Jones it was 1967. Herbert W. Armstrong of the Worldwide Church of God wanted it all to end in 1936, then 1943, and finally 1975. Leland Jensen thought 1980, Pastor Chuck Smith named 1981, and television evangelist, Pat Robertson, was no doubt left scratching his head when his god failed to blow our home planet and everything on it to smithereens in 1982. Tara Centers was so confident the Christian god was poised to extinguish all life that she took out full page ads in newspapers on the 24th and 25th of April 1982 announcing that “The Christ is Now Here!” Edgar C. Whisenant got it wrong in 1988 but did sell 5 million copies of his book 88 Reasons Why the Rapture Will Be in 1988. He revised the date to 1989, then 1993, and finally 1994, but didn’t sell as many books the second, third, and fourth times around. 1993 was the date for our planet’s dazzling demise according to the Disciples of Christ, David Berg, and after getting it wrong in 1988 and then again in 1999 the World Mission Society Church of God was certain 2012 was in fact the year their god was going to end it all. For the Christian radio broadcaster, Harold Camping, it was 6am on the 21st of May 2011 (a date later updated to the 21st of October), for Ronald Weinland of the Church of God it was May 27th 2012, June 30th for José Luis de Jesús of the Growing In Grace International Ministry (Inc.), and for Warren Jeffs of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints it was the 23rdof December 2012 (a date amended a few days later to the 31st of December) for when the Middle Eastern Christian god was going to commence its enchanted bloodbath and extinguish all terrestrial life. And most recently, on the 8th October, 2015, evangelical Christian radio host Chris McCann got his date for the end of the world, 7 October, 2015, wrong… Just like everyone else.

      All told, in the last fifty-six generations (1,700 years) there have been more than three-hundred prominent captains of Christianity who have announced with excited yips of childlike anticipation that their god was about to lay waste to all life on earth. In this generation alone there have been over forty major public incidents where socially-reckless, apocalypse-hungry Christian leaders have proclaimed that their god was here and it was time to die… and when the captains speak easily persuadable, astoundingly gullible congregants regretfully listen. Today a staggering 41% of US citizens (130,000,000 adults) believe that their Middle Eastern god will commence its mass extinction of all creatures in their lifetime. It’s a ghastly figure but it is a number reflected in the multi-billion dollar Christian apocalypse industry that has in just the last twenty years produced 29 End Times films (with such grand titles as “Tribulation” and “Judgement”), 60 documentaries (like “Racing to the End Times”), and some 1,120+ grotesquely warped End Times books, of which the Left Behind series has alone sold over 40 million copies.

      Add into this mix literally thousands of Christian End Times websites (like Ark Haven), thousands of blogs (like Christian Survival, The End-Times Christian Spiritual Survival Page and End-Time Preparation), and scores of geographically-specific Christian-only Survivalists groups and what we have is the largest and (somewhat antithetically, albeit hilariously) longest-lasting Death Cult in the history of humanity.

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      • . . . And a nice guy like you, Carl, can’t understand why Christianity’s called a death cult? One of your first sentences in response to SB was this – “The promise of the Resurrection is life.” Does that mean life after death , Carl? THAT, to me, is a bizarre idea. THIS is the life we get. If you want to dedicate this life – your life – to the two worthy ambitions you mentioned, that’s wonderful. And good. But you don’t need an invisible friend for that.

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      • Agree all these predictions about the end of times are quite silly and the end of times book sales are exploding because people are insecure about the future and want to have some idea to be ready which indeed in itself is silly too. They are gullible and certainly ignorant. Never heard it put that way “Christian apocalypse industry”. I agree that it is a racket and a fraudulent perspective on Christian end of times theology. Desperate people often subscribe to this foolishness you describe and I do agree it is foolishness. However, such does not tarnish the Gospel. Paul repeatedly posits the warning that there will be false prophets and charlatans that will misrepresent the faith exactly in the way you describe.

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    • Carl, I agree that one should “never be the source of anyone’s misfortune and never pass an opportunity to perform a charitable act if within your ability to do so,” but where I disagree is assigning these actions to Christianity. They are (or should be) basic human attributes.

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    • I agree with Carl. My experience is completely different than the writers. I have found nothing besides truth, peace and comfort. And also I have a formal education in Theology so I often find people’s claims to early writings are based more on heresay and repeated ignorance than fact. Jesus was the greatest thing to happen to the world. He changed the life of so many for the better. He came for the poor, the widow and the outcast. His is the only deity written of that gave his life for his followers and understood that by no means could man save himself. Christianity has been a beautiful experience for me. One that I cherish above all else.

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      • We can start with women. He forever changed the landscape for women’s rights. At the time Jesus walked on earth, women could be sold at 12 years of age. Often female babies were left outside to die from the elements. Women were not privy to educations, could be traded for goats and were not to be talked to in public . Jesus speaking to the woman at the well was a revolutionary move…

        Author Dorothy Sayers, a friend of C.S. Lewis, wrote:

        Perhaps it is no wonder that the women were first at the Cradle and last at the Cross. They had never known a man like this Man—there had never been such another. A prophet and teacher who never nagged at them, who never flattered or coaxed or patronized; who never made arch jokes about them, never treated them either as ‘The women, God help us!’ or ‘The ladies, God bless them!’; who rebuked without querulousness and praised without condescension; who took their questions and arguments seriously, who never mapped out their sphere for them, never urged them to be feminine or jeered at them for being female; who had no ax to grind and no uneasy male dignity to defend; who took them as he found them and was completely unselfconscious.

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      • Women’s rights? Can you show me where, exactly, Jesus speaks of women’s rights?

        Zoroaster spoke about equality, and Zoroastrian’s do not discriminate between men and women. Both the sexes are treated equally in the religious texts. Both men and women have equal importance in protecting the sanctity and divinity of the world. Children are advised to honor both mother and father equally.

        The Buddha also promoted equal rights, ordaining women as priests.

        Jains have no distinction between men and women.

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      • Sure. During the parable of the woman who had committed adultery. They brought the woman to him, caught in the act, the wanted him to stone her to death. At the time, it was not only legal but expected- he instead started writing in the sand…sins that they had committed and were worthy of death…he then says to the crowd ” he without sin cast the first stone” – seeing their hypocrisy they fled. Jesus stood up for a woman, condemned and guilty, he showed her love and compassion.

        The N. Testament instructs a man TO LOVE HIS WIFE as Christ loved the Church…that is to lay his life down for her in loving service.

        Contrast that to say a Islamic beliefs that in some instances still result in death by stoning for women. Muhammad had several wives and condoned beating them.

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      • That has nothing to do with women’s rights, rather judgment.

        So, please show me where Jesus addresses women’s rights.

        And as I have already shown you, older religions had, actually, addressed the matter long, long, long before Jesus… who, we both knowm never mentioned equal rights once.


      • Galatians 3:28 ESV

        There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.


      • 1 In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God….John 1… do you know what that means? That means that EVERY word in the Bible regardless of whos fleshly wrote it…is of God. That means if Paul, John, David or Moses wrote something it was God who wrote it. Every word. God.


      • Because at the time there were slaves. Heavenly Father I pray for these people…I ask you to open their eyes and their ears that they may gain the spiritual gift to understand your beautiful word…in Jesus Holy Name. Amen.


      • Slavery? Can you show me, exactly, where Jesus speaks of slavery?

        The first formal abolition of slavery was enacted in India, by Ashoka, emperor of the Maurya Dynasty, who abolished slavery in the 3rd Century BCE.

        In China, the Qin Dynasty eliminated slaves in the late 200’s BCE. When the Qin Dynasty fell, many of these laws were overturned, only to be abolished once again in 26 BCE by Wang Mang (Xin Dynasty) who abolished slavery altogether.

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      • Perhaps so but I gave you a wonderful article for reference. Christianity was responsible for freeing thousands if not millions of slaves.

        The fact is that ALL PEOPLE are image bearers of God. The Bible speaks of love thy neighbor. That’s all neighbors. There are many races of people mentioned in the Bible. The only rule was once we are brothers or sisters in Christ – race age sex doesn’t matter.

        Exodus 21:16 ESV
        “Whoever steals a man and sells him, and anyone found in possession of him, shall be put to death.

        Galatians 3:28 ESV
        There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.

        Deuteronomy 24:7 ESV
        “If a man is found stealing one of his brothers of the people of Israel, and if he treats him as a slave or sells him, then that thief shall die. So you shall purge the evil from your midst.

        Galatians 5:1 ESV
        For freedom Christ has set us free; stand firm therefore, and do not submit again to a yoke of slavery.

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      • Exodus 21:16 only concerns Hebrews abducting Hebrews. Female Hebrews, however, could be sold by their fathers and enslaved for life with some restrictions (Exodus 21:7-11). Abducting and selling non-Hebrews was not a problem (Deuteronomy 24:7), and slaves from surrounding countries could be kept as property forever (Leviticus 25:44-46). Indeed, the children of slaves were born into slavery (Exodus 21:4). And Deuteronomy 20:10-15/Judges 21:10-12 details how captives of war can be thrown into slavery, including all the women and children of the conquered.

        “slaves, obey your earthly masters with fear and trembling” (Ephesians 6:5)

        So, Jesus never mentions slavery, the OT is rife with pro-slavery, and even Paul condones it, giving slaves instructions.

        And, as I have already shown you, far older cultures abolished slavery long before even Jesus lived.

        Indeed, in ‘Christian Europe’, the first abolition of slavery occurred in Venice, 960 CE, when the Magistrate (Doge) of Venice, Pietro IV Candiano, banned it. Doge’s were men of the Law, not of religion. Venice was, of course, antagonistic to the Vatican.

        It was not until 1102 when we see the church in London condemn slavery during the Council of London .

        Slavery, however, was not banned in the UK until the legal case, Somerset v Stewart (1772). In the ruling, Lord Mansfield said:

        ”The state of slavery is of such a nature that it is incapable of being introduced on any reasons, moral or political, but only by positive law [ statute ], which preserves its force long after the reasons, occasions, and time itself from whence it was created, is erased from memory. It is so odious, that nothing can be suffered to support it, but positive law. Whatever inconveniences, therefore, may follow from the decision, I cannot say this case is allowed or approved by the law of England; and therefore the black must be discharged”

        So, care to try again… Please name something new, original, or even marginally useful Jesus said or did.

        Just one thing.


      • I wonder why it bothers you so much that hold fast to my faith? I love the Lord! If you read the Bible there is a thread to it that explains that some cannot see nor hear what the Bible says. I could explain it to you till Christ returns and it will make utter nonsense to you.

        I accept that. I though, understand it fully, I shared my beliefs with the writer. I do not have the capabilities to open your eyes or your ears to the Glory that is Christ….but one day you will see him…and then you will understand.


      • I named two. He changed the course of history for women. Compare Christian women to Muslim women’s lives. Secondly, I gave you examples of Christianity’s abolishion of slavery.


      • No, you made two suggestions, and both failed.

        So, if Jesus was the greatest thing to happen to the world, then please name a single new, original, or even marginally useful thing he said or did.


      • He changed EVERYTHING. I feel sorry for you. You are lost. You have no idea what it feels like to have what I have. I will pray for you.


      • Why is the United States National Motto “In God We Trust”… I look at the spread of Christianity into the Greco Roman Empire from 12 little disciples who all ended up dead…martyred…it seems kind of crazy doesn’t it…

        That here is this man…who claims to be the messiah…and all who follow him end up dead…yet through the underground Christian movement Christianity is still here today…with a mighty nation like the US…under the motto… in God We Trust….

        Noooooooo. One humble carpenters son born of a woman born of God….

        He didn’t change anything…he changed EVERYTHING.


      • Seriously?

        That’s not your motto. The motto of the US is e pluribus unum, out of many, one.

        In God we Trust was inserted on your coinage in the 1950’s as a nationalistic drive against Communism.


      • Never codified by law, E Pluribus Unum was considered a de facto motto of the United States until 1956 when the United States Congress passed an act (H. J. Resolution 396), adopting “In God We Trust” as the official motto.

        Our National Anthem…
        One Nation Under God

        He definitely has a strong influence over American History and Culture….

        And the millions of Christians who fill pews on Sunday morning all over the world would testify to the transformative powers of Christ.

        China now has the largest single Christian church with over 3 million members.

        Jesus Christ was born in a manger…in a little town not known for anything. He had 12 people who followed him around and learned his teachings…

        Now two of the mightiest nations in the worlds populations gather on Sunday and worship him. He has changed governments. Look at Constantine…. under Constantine Christianity finally became legal…and from there…it’s touched every continent on earth.


      • Your motto is e pluribus unum, out of many, one. It is on the seal of the US. It has been that since 1776.

        Are you seriously this ignorant?

        Now, are you just happy spouting nonsense, or are you actually going to address the question put to you?

        Please name a single new, original, or even marginally useful thing he said or did…

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      • In 1956 the President approved a Joint Resolution of the 84th Congress declaring “In God We Trust” as the official national motto of the United States of America.

        I challenge you to tell me something Jesus Christ has NOT effected since his coming. Because civilizations, human rights, education, exploration, arts and humanities, literature are all off the table. He has massive influence in all areas of life… so I say Jesus Christ is in EVERYTHING.

        He’s even in the Koran 😃 he’s actually mentioned more times than Muhammad.

        So you go for it, name anything he HASNT affected. His influence just in art, literature and history surpasses all known living or dead people.


      • If In God We Trust was meant to be the motto of the US it would have been stated as such in 1776.

        It wasn’t.

        What was, was e pluribus unum, out of many, one. It is on the Great Seal of the United States.

        Now please, either address the question put to you, or don’t expect a reply. You’re just wasting my time.

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      • Our national motto is In God We Trust. I’m sorry if that offends you, but it is legally been that and was reaffirmed in 2011.

        Our Entire Nation Acknowledges Jesus Christ 😁


      • Yes, since the 1950’s. Your country was founded in 1776. e pluribus unum is still the only words on the Great Seal of the United States.

        So, OK, you can’t name a single new, original, or even marginally useful thing Jesus said or did.

        Meditate on that revelation.

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      • Not new, or original.

        Gayō (the prototype of the human race), was sacrificed by Ahura Mazda so man could be born. Puruṣa (Vedic religions, which predate Jesus by thousands of years) is sacrificed for the life of the world.

        Indeed, the idea you’re alluding to here is a claim of a sacrificial atonement. It is far, far, far from being anything even vaguely original. The concept is found in almost all religions, not least of all Judaism. In Leviticus (4:35,5:10) we have :

        “The priest shall then offer the other as a burnt offering in the prescribed way and make atonement for them for the sin they have committed, and they will be forgiven.”

        Interestingly, in Luke 7:48 there is in fact a contradictory passage where Jesus demonstrates he can erase sin without being killed. ”Then Jesus said to her, “Your sins are forgiven””… so even this opinion of sacrificial atonement is flawed.

        So, No, not new or original.


      • Jesus also forgave the sins of the man who could not walk. The scribes and Pharisees looked at him and called blasphemy…and Jesus replied which is harder for the son of Man to forgive sins or to tell this man to pick up his bed and walk…so he told the paralyzed man to pick up his bed and walk…and he did. You may want to tuck that one into your stash for next time you try to thwart someone’s faith 😂😂😂😂😂


      • Someone could show up at my door Igor now and say deny Jesus or it’s off with your head…and say send meeeee hoooommmeee. I’d die with a smile on my face. What your conversation shows me is just how sad it must be to not have that. The Bible tells me that I cannot do anything for one such as you. I am actually Calvinistic. I believe in predestination and Gods elect. I pray God opens your eyes…it may or not be possible. But I will regardless pray for you. 🙏🏻


      • If you allow me, coming so late to the discussion, to ask a few questions.
        1. What is truth and what truth have you come to in your beliefs?
        2. Does the fact that a drunk is happy make alcohol good?
        3. What is theology? What does it study and what is it based on? Does it make any predictions?
        4. What do you say about the many people who have been killed in Jesus name? IS that changing lives for the better?
        5.If Jesus is deity and he was dead for three days, does this mean that the world can go on without god? We have no reports of anything stopping in those 3 days of supposed death.
        I await your detailed response to the above.


      • It’s my impression, Mak, that thewayonline doesn’t come to her beliefs by thinking ; she just repeats her well-used mantras and figures her point is made. Methinks she belongs to the Fanatics for Jesus Club. 😦


      • Yes, Mak, you are right. I have a feeling, however, that this one is only interested in proselytizing. Hopefully she’ll attempt to answer, instead of just giving us a sermon on Calvinism. We shall see.


    • The Old Testament is a very accurate history of the Jewish people and their experience with God. It is valuable even from a secular pure historical document, archaeology and social anthropology. I dismiss of course silly Adam and Eve and such as mythology as all ancient cultures had “beginning of things ” literature. A belief in the Old Testament records does not support the notion that the earth is a mere 6,000 years old. Jewish scholars agree that the universe is billions of years old, accept evolutionary theory and scientific proofs about the universe. They see Genesis accounts as the beginning of a history of the Jewish people and their covenant with God not a scientific tenet. Yes fundamentalist and primitive Christians have distorted the truth with their unrealistic assertions. Once again their foolish understandings and the realities of the universe in no way disprove or reduce the majesty of Christ’s Gospel.


      • The Old Testament is a very accurate history of the Jewish people and their experience with God

        No, it’s not. The Patriarchal age has been entirely assigned to fiction many, many decades ago.

        That being said, the bible post exile is a wonderful historical source.

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    • I think that’s a better reason for not getting involved in it in the first place. Sadly, I became aware of the borrowing that the Pentateuch did from Babylonian influences, and it didn’t encourage me to leave the faith. It was something staring me in the face, but I still didn’t make the mental leap.

      It seems like such a small thing to make the connection that the Bible is just one culture’s mythology that’s been promoted through the years, but in practice it’s more difficult than it ought to be. I wish I could explain why, because it would greatly help illustrate to those within the faith how their beliefs can poison their reasoning.

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  2. Carmen. I am not sure about life after death or life everlasting. It is the promise of Jesus. I’m 68 and ill so will find our sooner than most ! I wish I could get back to you on that. But if indeed “this life is all we got” is true, I care to live in in the Light of Christ’s teachings.The is not out of fear or wrath of an alleged angry god but merely the common sense to immerse myself in love and charity.


    • That’s the same common sense that tells me there’s no such thing as (holy) ghosts. You have decided to immerse yourself in love and charity because you are a good man; another thing that common sense tells me. 🙂
      Oh, and I’m not that far behind you in years. I think this life is fine – after all, it’s all we’ll ever know. All the more reason to live it with dignity, kindness and love, which is why we have a conscience. 🙂

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  3. SIRIUS Yes I do not agree with the stuff you describe in first paragraph. Death cult -Well the matter of death has preoccupied all people in all ages and cultures, not merely Christianity, wouldn’t you agree?In the Roman Church and Russian and Greek Orthodox the crucified Christ stature reigns the front of the church. In Protestant churches our cross is empty as well celebrate the risen Christ. This does not mean to diminish the suffering Christ. Jesus is the Angel of Life. Satan is the Angel of Death. I see the risen Christ as good conquering evil. I am a heretic in that I do not adhere to idea of resurrected body but only of the Spirit and our souls. Yes the Constitution is not the Bible. The idea of inalienable rights are God given and yes that is expressed in the Declaration of Independence not the Constitution. But the presence of the spirit of a Judaeo-Christian influence does thread through the Constitution as it defines democracy, justice and equality. On the other hand I believe in the separATION OF CHURCH AND STATE TO THE POINT THAT ELECTED OFFICIALS NEED BE SWORN ON ON A COPY OF THE cONSTITUTION NOT THE bIBLE. (damn shift key – I’m not rewriting). Yes, agree that tenets and propositions of Christianity should not be automatically be accepted on faith alone. That is the tyranny of the roman Church. In Protestantism we believe that a faith unexamined is vapid. Discernment is encouraged and not seen as rebellious. In my own case it has created disagreement with some points of doctrine but generally nurtured my surrender to the wonderful liberation of the Gospel as reasonable and spiritual and really quite simple.


  4. As a matter of personal integrity I will share that I have not lived in the Light of the Holy Spirit. I was quite a notorious “player” on the streets of Miami for decades. I am now clean and sober 15 years, 5 months through the healing power of the Lord.


    • Good for you, Carl. I would argue that YOU did that. You, the person who decided to make a change and used every ounce of willpower, passion and fortitude to make that change in your own life. It must have been difficult – for many, it’s insurmountable – and you deserve loads of credit. You, Carl. Not an invisible, unidentifiable force. You did it and you should feel very good about it. Conjuring up a (holy) ghost to pin the credit on is selling yourself short, in my opinion. YOU have my utmost admiration.

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      • There seems a reason for my recovery. A purpose not planned by me. It coincided with my parents moving in with me in 2002. Mother passed 2012 but 94 year old father still with we and healthy with all his wits. But I have no brothers or sisters and I am his sole caretaker. Presently my drug addict daughter abandoned her kids and I have supported the foster family(whom I have known since the parents were children)with about 40% or my retiree income.I also support my son who has a very low income. I am the pillars for all. Was it planned that I became available ? All would crumble without me. I did not straighten up because I knew these challenges would present. Does not seem coincidence. It gave me purpose I did not initiate.


    • Hey Daniel,

      Really a bunch of different experiences and reasons exist for why I wrote what I wrote above. Above is just an incredibly loose and vague outline which is just an attempt at marshaling my thoughts on the matter.

      I say this as an apology that I don’t think I could fully relate in a comment an answer that would be satisfactory to anyone. I do hope to flesh this out with more specifics in the future, so all I can say right now is that it is my desire to eventually write enough which might explain my thinking.


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    • Hey there Nathan,

      Unfortunately the above is an outline of something that might end up being book length (over 50k words at least), so I’m not sure if I’d be able to give you a satisfactory response. That said, I’ll try to give a few examples of what I’m getting at here.

      Point 1 – Here, I’m driving at a few things regarding religious predictions which govern cause-and-effect relationships. This could include statements like the Christian deity sent a flood or storm to punish people, or that people who pray for things will receive them. In these cases, believers sometimes assert there is a cause (an omnipotent deity) and effect (some phenomenon that occurs). By asserting that these predictions aren’t reliable, I’m saying that the cause-and-effect relationship isn’t developed like other relationships.

      2 – Admittedly, I’m making a pretty definitive statement about history here. However, my focus is on the natural roots of Christianity. Even taking the natural claims of the Bible at face value, a few things pop out: Jesus talked a lot about death, dying, blood sacrifice, servitude, and the end of the world. People who do that today form what is known as “death cults.”

      Thus, what I’m doing in this point is passing on the question of divinity and focusing instead on Christianity’s similarities to any other religious movement.

      6 – This point refers to giving greater deference to claims in the Bible rather than claims about knowledge today. One really solid example of this is the idea of the speed of light versus the age of humanity given in the Bible. Has humanity existed physically for only 6000 years? Human artifacts date to before that would suggest otherwise. To give biblical claims more deference would require a reason to deny other things humanity has learned.


  6. Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It was definitely interesting to read considering I’ve been down that same road although I had a different outcome. I found myself drawn to Christianity more after I saw the state the the world is in. Not that there isn’t any good in it, but it’s just having hope for something better at the end of the day. I agree that faith is something you have to decide for yourself and it can’t really be imposed on anyone, nor should it be. 🙂 Thanks again for your thoughts and hopefully you don’t mind mine, lol!

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  7. I enjoyed reading your post. You illustrated the disconnect that exists between religion and reality. Many churches and professed christians have isolated their beliefs from their actions, and hurt lots of people. I am choosing my words carefully, because I left agnosticism and became a Christian. It is interesting to read a post from someone that did the opposite. I respect your position. People are very valuable, and there should never be “exceptions” made when dealing with reality. Your reasons are valid reasons to leave a religion, but they do not reflect my God. Thanks for the post.


  8. I don’t understand your reason to leave Christianity. If you really think there is no God. You are fooled by Satan to think in that way. You can watch YouTube for demonic magicians and how they could transform matter to mesmerise people.

    Jesus asked us to hate the world and it’s pleasures to let him come to you and gives his comfort to you.
    Going towards atheism makes you ruthless and one day you won’t find a reason to be good or righteous.

    That’s evil brother. Come to Jesus and he understands you.

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    • Hey there!

      Your comment reminded me of this song by Cake. It’s great!

      Catchy tunes aside, I understand where you’re trying to come from. However, it’s not really effective because you’re making some assumptions that I’m not proverbially sold on. To be clear, I’m a former Christian. I’ve heard the sales pitch a ton of times, and repeating it doesn’t do me any favors.

      Moreover, I haven’t listed anything too terribly specific above about my reasons to leave Christianity. It’s an outline, a broad brush that I will try to fill in at some future time. When I get more specific, I think you might find it more helpful in figuring out where you might disagree with me.


      • God dealt with the emotions of a man. We can’t prove God or Devil using scientific terms. Can you prove your emotions of love, hatred, jealousy, pain etc using any science? Or Will you deny their existence as you can’t prove them?
        God is metaphysical. He allowed our emotions part to be metaphysical.
        We live by our emotions not with scientific proofs everyday.
        We can’t control our emotions. If so people find it hard to control their anger, lust for pornography, jealousy, alcohol addiction etc where many people struggle at.
        God is the one who Comforts them with hope.
        It seems okay to have a life style without God. But our emotions go unguarded one-day to the level we control it.


      • Hello again!

        I’m going to stop you before you get too far off the rails here. This post is not about proving the existence of a deity; it’s about reasons to leave the religion of Christianity. The points above are ones I picked carefully to pass on the question of the reality of a deity. My interest here is not rehashing a pointless debate.

        Now, I get that you feel strongly about your faith. That’s great. You do you. But I do have rules here for commenting. I’m asking you to abide by them so that way discussions can be fruitful.

        Putting it differently: I’m asking this as a show of good faith on your part. I haven’t traveled to your blog, denouncing religion or your faith. You are going to receive the same courtesy or lack thereof that you exhibit here.

        Thank you.


      • It’s fine. I’m not taking offense to anything. I’m getting from your comments that you feel strongly about what you believe. Personally, I don’t think WordPress comment exchanges could do either of our positions the justice they might need.

        I fully accept that you might disagree with my position in my post. That’s totally okay. I am just trying to avoid discussions that don’t do both sides adequate justice.

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      • 😂. You just taken the literal meaning of what I said. I’m saying that, if you analyse your day, every moment is with an emotion (whatever be the emotion) which can’t be quantified. But they are real to ourselves. We ask for facts rarely in our daily routines. I didn’t say God wants to operate everything to be against principles of nature.
        If we check out YouTube, people with demonic powers transform matter. Do you think it is acceptable to science. People won’t think about them, as magicians do wonders and don’t ask to believe anything, they entrap people in a notion of entertainment. That’s itself is worshipping Devil.

        There is a complex system all around us. That’s is created by God. I’m trying to understand God rather than Nature.


  9. thewayonline: “Jesus was the only god to ever sacrifice himself for his followers.” — Are gods immortal? If yes then he didn’t sacrifice himself. He was playing dead.

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  10. I worry that all of the reasons are rather self centered, and though Christian thinkers often make the same mistake, it’s no less fallacious to assume ones life choices should be based around personal convenience. That very fact is what often leads people away from Christianity. I am sorry you encountered a Christianity that preaches “people are worthless.” That completely contradicts everything Jesus came for, in Christianity, and what most every Christian in my life lives to see happen. You’re awesome, and loved, and I hope you find truth wherever you are!!! ❤


    • Which reasons do you think are based on personal convenience? The above post is detailing a broad outline. I don’t make any mention that leaving Christianity is convenient. Indeed, based on the actions of many of the faithful, it can be quite inconvenient. I might even go so far as to characterize it as another reason to leave Christianity.

      Regardless, there’s no need for you to apologize for anyone’s actions but your own. I understand you feel that your religion has a positive message, but that viewpoint isn’t a necessary one based on biblical teachings. In order to teach that Jesus loved everyone enough to die for their sins, everyone must be sinful.


  11. It is a historical fact that Jesus walked the earth. It happened. But yes, it takes faith knowing that Jesus himself is God in the flesh. The exact opposite of faith is not unbelief but merely skepticism and misgiving.. It’s just too simple minded to believe that this is all there is to it. Your reasons are irrelevant.. they’re just not supportive enough. They lack reason. “Atheism turns out to be too simple. If the whole universe has no meaning, we should never have found out that it has no meaning.” C.S. Lewis, who once was an atheist him self, and was a top philosopher. I️ suggest that you, my friend, dig deeper into the Bible and what history has to say about Jesus’ time.. and think about your reasonings..

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    • I’m quite familiar with Lewis. While he might sound nice and provide pithy quotes, he doesn’t exactly relate to atheists or even my post. My post is about reasons to leave Christianity, not reasons to become an atheist. Plenty of people leave the faith to become agnostic (or join other faiths).

      As to whether Jesus existed, there is at least some debate. Tabling that concern, my second point asserts that Christianity is not special. Rather, its origins are similar to any other cult we see form in today’s day and age. It began with a teacher spreading a new religious message, preaching the end of the world, and how they needed to do what he said to get eternal life.

      If that demonstrates divinity, then there are way more examples of the divine walking around.


      • Concerning the end of the world, no one knows when that will take place. I️ apologize for going straight to atheism, but I️ do believe that faith is your choice. No religious or ethical group should determine ones faith. That is between you and God alone.

        So my apologies, friend. Hope to you, that you won’t lose faith in the eternal standpoint and keep an open mind.


      • If we’re being completely candid here, are you hoping that I keep an actual open mind, or that I keep Christianity in mind? How do you even know I’m not keeping an open mind? You’ve left two comments on a stranger’s blog. I don’t know if it’s appropriate to make that assessment so quickly.


      • You’re right I️ don’t know you. And again you’re correct, you may be keeping an open mind. To anything. Whatever you feel called to do or wherever your heart leads you. I️ will not comment any longer. And I️ hope you do not think that I️ am trying to convert you or judge you, because I️ really am not trying to do that. I️ apologize if that’s how I️ was coming off.


      • I️ am pretty strong in my faith personally, Carmen. I️ am open to the path Jesus has opened for me. So yes. Have faith in something you can stand strong on. And from then on, keep an open mind to what is store for ahead.


      • How do you know it was Jesus? Could have been another mythical person from the Bible. . .or Peter Pan . . . One thing’s for certain, though. You know how to recite the platitudes. 🙂

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  14. Wow! Reading your post make me hurt for you! Because to me Christianity has never been empty, God brings me the very essence of hope and joy. He has done many miracles in my life, that even atheist doctors couldn’t deny (he healed my boy of a non curable disease). He has brought healing when I’ve been betrayed by friends, love when I’ve been forgotten by others. Never once in all my years has Christianity made me feel worthless!!! In fact, knowing that I was formed in love by a creator for a purpose makes my life all the more meaningful. The bible’s history is as true as any history books, as many who have tried to prove its facts false have come to agree! May you find this Christmas, a miracle – faith in God, who’s as real as the very air we breathe.


    • It’s okay, you don’t have to hurt for anyone!

      Although I have rough days, I actually am doing better managing my mental health now that I’m not a Christian anymore. While your subjective experience is different, it doesn’t exactly have any bearing on what I’m alleging in my post. Simply alleging that one deity is real unfortunately doesn’t make it real; otherwise, we’ve got a bunch of them flying around everywhere.

      Atheism is not without hope, solace, or comfort. What I lost in religious thinking, I made up for with simple honesty to myself and others. I needed to do this quite literally to save my own life. Otherwise, my faith was going to get me killed.

      This might not seem very comforting to you, but people who leave Christianity come here to find solace from the hurt religion and especially its adherents have caused them. While you might feel like you’re trying to help, you’re actually providing another example to people of why they left the faith in the first place. They just see another person wanting to get former Christians to double down on something that has already failed them.

      I’d also like to finally add that I’m not writing this to get you to reconsider your faith. You have your own reasons for believing what you believe, and I don’t want to take them from you. Still, former Christians have left their faith for equally persuasive reasons.

      Fairness dictates that if you’re entitled to yours, they are entitled to theirs.

      I wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.

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